COPING WITH THE PAIN CAUSED IN LOSING SOMEONE
You can never understand the pain caused by the loss of a dear friend, relatives or acquaintance. Putting yourself in the shoe of the person crying in front of you is not enough. You have to have felt that pain before, to know that it's tough.
It’s more than any other pain, because you realise that you ll never see that person again. That s even what makes it more painful. And all what you possess of him or her, are and will be the memories you once shared.
It is only after I lost someone that I understood the meaning of, "I don’t know if I could ever be fine" "I don’t know if I will make it" " life will never be the same again without."..
Clearly there are other expressions you can get from people who are wrecked after losing a dear person. It can take months even years before they can really heal from that shock and it’s simply understandable.
However, it is important to know and realise that we are born and we are made to die. God has allocated to each of us, a certain time on earth we should consider and use carefully.
READ MORE IN ISSUE2 "THOUGHTS OF LIFE" SEPTEMBER 2017